Sewing is as much an essential life skill as cooking. Clothing yourself, at least in this society, is as necessary as eating. Buying all your clothes, home decor, and other fabric necessities from a store is exactly the same as relying on restaurants for every piece of food you put into your mouth. Sure, there are people that do eat restaurant food exclusively, but I think it’s universally agreed that cooking your own meals is healthier and more budget-friendly.
So is cooking, before you learn how to do it. You weren’t born knowing how to cook. You learned, likely from other people and from recipes. Well, guess what: Sewing is just as accessible. You don’t have to learn how to sew from your mother anymore, though it’s great if you can! Social media, YouTube, and many other outlets are connecting the sewing community in amazing ways. To find mentors, you need only google “sewing.” Sewing patterns are your recipes. Sure, inserting a zipper for the first time is difficult and you’ll likely screw it up, but you probably screwed up your first scratch meal too. But you got better and faster at cooking with practice, right?
I dare you to calculate how much time you spend shopping, only to buy clothes that don’t fit well or in a color that you don’t really like. The stores, the dressing rooms, the return shipping… Add it up. Then don’t forget to add the Dressing Room Emotional Tax: Trying on clothes leaves you with misplaced anger and frustration. You’re mad at your body for not fitting into the clothes you want, instead of realizing that mass produced clothes cannot possibly account for individual body shapes.
Sometimes, but store clothes are also not custom tailored to your fabulous measurements or in the perfect fabric or color for you, much less unique. Quality fabric does sometimes come at a premium, but those clothes you think you are buying for so much less money are not going to last nearly as long. You’re going to send them to the landfill, sometimes after the first wash, and buy more – a bottomless money pit. Here’s your real news flash: That’s what the manufacturers and the stores want you to do. You’re not saving money, if you understand what a long game is.
Don’t even get me started on this b.s. (1) Sewing grandmas are awesome and we should be so lucky as to learn their skills. (2) Take one look on social media at who is sewing these days. I dare you to try to find an age range, race, or gender identity not well represented. (3) You know who is responsible for eradicating this ridiculous stigma? We are. You are.
So I’d like to plant this seed here for all the new sewists and the sewists coming out of retirement due to current events: Don’t put your machines away when social distancing is over.
Take all this sewing energy you have now and run with it!